Letting Go

Letting Go

by Rick Hanson, PhD uthond Rick Mendius, MD Introduction Our topic is letting go, one of the five essential inner skills – the others being awareness, insight, taking in the good, and using the will. (For background, please see the Five Essential Skills articles here:...
The Power of Intention

The Power of Intention

Every day, think as you wake up: Today I am fortunate to have woken up. I am alive, I have a precious human life. I am not going to waste it.~The Dalai Lama To make the most of your life, to nourish the causes of happiness for yourself and others, it takes strength,...
Intimacy and Autonomy

Intimacy and Autonomy

Love tends to join and hate to separate, but joining is not the same as love, and separation is not hatred. Sometimes the most loving thing a person can do is take a step back: that’s distance in the service of attachment. And it’s not loving to join in invasive or...
Eddies in the Stream

Eddies in the Stream

© Rick Hanson, Ph.D. 2009 1 Rivers flow and eddies form.An eddy is a relatively stable pattern whose elements continually change. It is “standing-streaming,” a term from Evan Thompson’s marvelous book, Mind in Life. All eddies disperse eventually. 2 In a river, an...